We’re all familiar with the traditional wedding day accoutrement– the big white dress, the big white cake, the big white flowers– and there’s nothing wrong with any of those things, but the deamnd for updates and new ideas is understandable when one considers that many of the traditions surrounding the wedding day are quite old and do not take our modern age into account.

When one considers that most of the elements generally regarded as necessary for the wedding day are used and then disposed of or put away after the day itself, it’s plain to see that the wedding rings, as the one exception, are the most important material part of a wedding. Plain wedding rings in classic metals like gold and platinum are still well-liked, but the demand for more modern and unique wedding rings is formidable. For a fancier style, eternity rings with diamonds and other precious stones might be the way to go, and for something in a cutting-edge material and design, tungsten carbide is likely the smart choice.

Tungsten carbide rings, commonly abbreviated as “tungsten rings” are perhaps the most modern choice one can make in picking the right jewelry for a cutting-edge contemporary wedding. These rings are very hard and strong, scratch-resistant, and tarnish-proof, and they look great with a brushed or polished finish, laser etching, and all of the other distinctive design accents tungsten rings and the related technology make possible.

Music is another major point to consider. The classical standards by Mendelssohn and Pachelbel so often associated with weddings are still popular and an excellent choice, as long as that’s what you want. But one should never feel confined to doing something in one way simply because that’s how it’s always been done. I’ve been a bridesmaid and maid of honor more times than I care to admit– let’s just say Katherine Heigl and her 27 dresses have nothing on me– and some of the most meaningful and memorable ceremonies were so because the couple dispensed with the status quo in order to do what made them happy and reflected their interests. Movie soundtracks, novelty songs, and performances by the couple’s musically inclined friends were all on the table, and it always worked because the intention was sincere.

The rules have changed regarding wedding flowers as well– the white roses and baby’s breath of traditional bouquets are now often edged out by bright colors, exotic plants, and non-floral accents like ribbons and crystals. For the wedding I discussed above, the bride carried a bouquet of flowers sculpted from metal and glass while we bridesmaids held bunches of peacock feathers.

In summary, the modern wedding– your modern wedding– can be anything you want it to be, and sharing this special commitment of your love with your friends and family should be all about what makes all of you unique and the special reasons you all love each other.

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